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How to get promoted
(It's not what you think)

In life, we’re taught that if we work really hard and do the right things, we will be rewarded.
Get an A - it goes on the fridge
Go to a good school - everybody claps
Do well at your job - crickets…
What gives?
The reality:
To progress in your career, you need to be your own biggest advocate.
Scroll down for 3 secrets to boost your chances of progression, promotion, and (more) pay.
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#1: Know what you want (and ask for it)
You’re not getting promoted because you’re too short-sighted.
Long-term goals differentiate you from everyone else just trying to get ahead.
(Bonus: they also add meaning to your work)
Use them to your advantage:
Create your long-term vision (aligned to your company’s goals)
Communicate it to your manager
Ask what it takes to get there (be specific)
Execute:
Develop your skill set
Take on stretch projects
Connect with relevant people
Track your wins
Celebrate your progress regularly (and outwardly)
#2: Build your fan base (start with your manager)
Relationships matter.
I know some people have an early advantage here - I won’t ignore that.
But, that shouldn’t stop you from finding loyal followers of your brand:
Know what you want to be known for (hint: values, strengths)
Build trust with your manager
Get sh*t done: Clarify the Why, What, How, and When for tasks
Eat their frog: Find the thing they hate and take it off their plate
Make yourself invaluable: Show off your unique skills
Expand your network (authentically)
Find a coffee chat cadence that’s sustainable for you
Build a personal CRM to keep connections warm
Connect personally with people you work with often
Ask for introductions to people you want to meet
Add value for others by sharing resources and insights
#3: Lift others up (don’t drag them down)
People want to work with real team players.
This doesn’t mean taking on other people’s work or hiding your successes.
It means shifting your mindset from competitive to collaborative:
Ask for feedback (early and often)
Don’t guess how people perceive you - find out
Bring people along in your thinking processes
Mentor others
Support people on your team and in other business areas
Learn coaching skills to empower instead of instruct
Lead by example
No back door criticism or gossip
Communicate clear boundaries
Follow through on commitments
These actions will show that you've got the 'soft' skills your company wants in its future leaders.
Want to dive deeper on this topic?
Article (7 min): Promotions Aren’t Just About Your Skills – They’re About Your Relationships (HBR)
Video (6 min): “Unspoken rules” for getting promoted
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See you next Thursday,
Alex
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